Oral sex

Mouthing Off
You can have a great orgasm and you don't have to do anything. How is it possible, you can ask? Oral sex! There are lots of people who think that oral sex is the best thing going. It's a way where you can receive pure pleasure without having to do a lot of bumping and grinding. And for lots of people performing oral sex is just as great of a thrill as receiving it.

A long time ago, oral sex was something that was done usually months or years after a couple had already been having intercourse, as an extra sex act. Times have changed. Today many couples engage in oral sex long before they ever have intercourse.

Sometimes when a couple wants to wait to have “sex”, instead of intercourse they perform oral sex. Although oral sex is widely performed by millions of people, it does not mean that oral sex necessarily comes naturally to everyone. Some people do not like to receive oral say, because of some inhibitions, so they can't just lie back and enjoy it. Also some peole might worry that they are not good enough at performing oral sex, so they avoid doing it.

Why Oral Sex Is Amazing
There is one big reason why receiving oral sex is amazing: It feels great!

Some other reasons:

• Because of stimulation, which is concentrated on the genitals, orgasm can happen quickly and intensely.
  
  
• The tongue is more flexible and softer than fingers or almost anything else, for that matter so it can stimulate genitals in a really unique way.
  
  
• Oral sex can help a man and a woman become aroused during foreplay. Also it can help a man to get a firm erection and it can help a woman become well lubricated.
  
  
• Tight, wet, warm lips can be very stimulating when they are wrapped around a penis and a warm wet tongue can be very stimulating when it is moving around on a woman's clitoris and vagina.
  
  
• For women there's no risk of pregnancy.
  
  
• Like any kind of sex, oral sex is a way to express love.

Oral sex can be a part of foreplay, a way to get ready for intercourse. When people want to wait to have intercourse, or if one or both partners are not able to have intercourse due to illness or disability oral sex can be a substitute for sex or it can be a sexual variation to be enjoyed simply for the pleasure it brings.

Lick It, Lick It Good
It is a great way to pleasure a woman and to experience her sensuality by performing oral sex on a woman, called cunnilingus. Through oral sex, her partner can closely stimulate her. He can experience her orgasm in a way that is different from intercourse—up close and personal.

Because of direct stimulation to women’s clitoris, some women can have orgasms more easily from oral sex than from intercourse. Many women love the feeling of oral sex, because of the unique sensation of a warm, wet tongue on their vulva. When you perform oral sex on a woman, you do more than just try to make her have an orgasm -- you can give her real pleasure by doing all sorts of things with your tongue, mouth, and fingers, as it will be described below.

Here are lip-smacking ideas for things, which you can do while performing oral sex on a woman.

• Find a comfortable position.
For many women, the most comfortable position is when she lies on her back, and you sit, lie or kneel with your head between her legs. For diversity, she can sit or stand and you can kneel in front of her. Also she could squat over your face while you are lying on your back.

• Start with your hands.
Run your hand over her pubic hair and touch her inner thighs, then wet your finger and touch her labia, clitoris, and vagina. After this you can start kissing the entire area. Place your tongue on her vulva, when she is excited.

• Lick around the entire area.
Let the movements of your tongue be vertical: from the bottom of her vagina to the top of her clitoris. You should begin licking from the bottom of her vagina to the top of her clitoris, using your tongue in different ways all around the area. You can lick long ice-cream-cone-type licks with the flat part of your tongue or use the edge of your tongue back and forth. Just explore the whole area with your tongue.

• Focus on the clitoris.
Using the tip of your tongue make circles on her clitoris and continue the circular motion until you have a consistent rhythm, or you can also lick up and down or back and forth on the clitoris instead of circles. Hold her labia apart to further expose her clitoris, for more direct stimulation of her clitoris.

• Avoid direct clitoral stimulation if she's overly sensitive there.
There are women, which do not like direct clitoral stimulation. Some women may prefer, when you focus on the labia or the clitoral hood - the skin that covers the clitoris. You should lighten up on tongue pressure if her clitoris seems to disappear under the clitoral hood, because it may be very sensitive at this time.

• Use your fingers around the labia.
Start to stroke her inner labia with your fingers as you lick her clitoris, Separate them with your fingers. If you gently tug on them she may enjoy it.

• Penetrate the vagina.
You can put a finger or two inside her vagina and slowly move your finger(s) in and out or also you can use your tongue to penetrate her vagina, and move it in and out. You can give her a real pleasure if you do this at the same time as clitoral stimulation -just keep them both going at the same time in a rhythm. But first find out what she likes, because some women do not like any penetration.

• Use your hands to stimulate her whole body.
Reach up and touch her breasts or nipples or touch her inner thighs, butt, or anywhere on her body. Slowly slide a lubricated finger inside her anus (that is, only if anal contact is something that you already know she likes) or touch gently around her anus.

• Ask her to tell you what she likes.
You can ask her to tell you where she likes to be licked or she can show you by pointing out the good spots with her fingers. Also you can find out about it by her behavior - some women making noises or moving their hips, or moving your head around with their hands.

• Keep up a rhythm when she's close to orgasm.
Focus in on the places that respond best to your tongue if she is close to orgasm. She can have an orgasm if you keep up a rhythm in that area.

• Ease away after orgasm.
After orgasm a woman's clitoris may become very sensitive. So she may want you to stop as soon as she is finished with her orgasm. This may be the time to move on to other sex acts or to cuddle. Sometimes after oral sex, a woman prefers not to kiss right away, but if she wants to kiss you after, you may, of course.

Some women have orgasms from their clitoris during oral sex, some prefer indirect clitoral stimulation to direct contact, some women do not like penetration of their vagina at the same time, and some do. Remember that every single woman is a different, so if you really want to be a fantastic oral lover, then you really have to talk to her and pay really close attention to the way she moves her body to let you know what she likes the most.